"Oh. You'd told me at one point not to say any of the names to you, so I was being cautious. GOod to know about Koronai, though."
He nods. "All right, let me know when you decide. I know that memories might be case by case." He'd probably consult with Wash before doing anything.
"I guess it might help, asking people to ask me. It's better than arguing about it or me thinking I've been clear when I really haven't."
Macaque hasn't mentioned the Cole thing since he doesn't want to worry anyone, but it's weighing on him, so... "Cole is absolutely certain that what MK did to you was accidental. I've had my doubts, and this really upsets Cole. He thinks that I should trust him and MK far enough to believe it. And it bothers him overall that I sometimes don't take his advice about MK. It's kind of complicated by the fact that MK is his main emotional foundation, and I have the pillar thing going on, so disharmony between me and MK gets to Cole on an existential level. It's how his kind works. Cole and I, and Cole and MK I think, agreed to just not talk about me and MK, but he can still sense the tension. So me not taking his advice about MK bothers him on that foundational level, and also because he hates not being able to help."
"I tried explaining to him that I don't have struggles with MK at him, but him being what he is makes that not really matter, they effect him. And we kept going around and around about it, and it was driving us further apart. So I agreed to start trying to believe him about MK and he agreed to not take it personally when I need to find my own way rather than take his advice."
"...Unfortunately, the result is just that I'm not telling him things. Which bothers him I know, but I just want to keep the peace. And Cole also told me that he's jealous that I do take Wash's advice. Cole and I have been a mess for over a year now which definitely means that I'm shit at being his pillar. I just also feel like I deserve to make my own choices even if sometimes they're not great ones without being made to feel guilty about it. I hate that this impacts Cole, but I don't think making choices that I'm not comfortable with for his sake is very healthy either."
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He nods. "All right, let me know when you decide. I know that memories might be case by case." He'd probably consult with Wash before doing anything.
"I guess it might help, asking people to ask me. It's better than arguing about it or me thinking I've been clear when I really haven't."
Macaque hasn't mentioned the Cole thing since he doesn't want to worry anyone, but it's weighing on him, so... "Cole is absolutely certain that what MK did to you was accidental. I've had my doubts, and this really upsets Cole. He thinks that I should trust him and MK far enough to believe it. And it bothers him overall that I sometimes don't take his advice about MK. It's kind of complicated by the fact that MK is his main emotional foundation, and I have the pillar thing going on, so disharmony between me and MK gets to Cole on an existential level. It's how his kind works. Cole and I, and Cole and MK I think, agreed to just not talk about me and MK, but he can still sense the tension. So me not taking his advice about MK bothers him on that foundational level, and also because he hates not being able to help."
"I tried explaining to him that I don't have struggles with MK at him, but him being what he is makes that not really matter, they effect him. And we kept going around and around about it, and it was driving us further apart. So I agreed to start trying to believe him about MK and he agreed to not take it personally when I need to find my own way rather than take his advice."
"...Unfortunately, the result is just that I'm not telling him things. Which bothers him I know, but I just want to keep the peace. And Cole also told me that he's jealous that I do take Wash's advice. Cole and I have been a mess for over a year now which definitely means that I'm shit at being his pillar. I just also feel like I deserve to make my own choices even if sometimes they're not great ones without being made to feel guilty about it. I hate that this impacts Cole, but I don't think making choices that I'm not comfortable with for his sake is very healthy either."